Who can be my wali if my parents don't agree to let me marry now but later?
I'm in a relationship with a man of my age who is undergoing training in Armed forces. So he is not allowed to get married now.
Because of my mother's insistence he had to go to army so that I don't have to face army and also he can get married to me. I want to get married as early as possible because I have felt satan and nafs are taking us and influencing us to wrongdoings.
Both our families want us to get married when he gets permission which is in 4 years to come, and also want me to complete my mbbs and and another degree before marriage which is yet 5-6 years.
Can we at least have marriage without their concern right now? Who will be my wali?
If we get married we cannot expose it publicly because it is risky for his job. I want to get rid out of this sin and want to enter into a halal relation.
